Looking Back and Moving Forward


Today’s snowy weather has kept our family indoors.  This comes as a welcome change since we were in need of some down time together.  Besides watching multiple episodes of Iron Chef on television and adding the finishing touches to our gingerbread house (I like to save this activity for the New Year rather than squeezing it into the Christmas holiday), we took this opportunity to pack away our ornaments.

Here’s a look at our tree all loaded up with ornaments (oops, forgot to turn on the twinkling lights.)

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Most of our ornaments are handmade, and I especially cherish the ones that we made using photos.  Since the photos themselves were the main focus, I intentionally kept the photo frames simple.  And in keeping with this authentic feel, I chose to capture unpolished, candid photos that cast a diy vibe. 

Bill and I with our first dog, Bosco from 14 years ago.

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From our wedding day, 12 years ago.

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 Bill and Brook, 10 years ago.  Notice the prominent side burns – so 90’s!

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 Looking at these old photos stirred-up deep emotions, and I was flooded by feelings of immense gratitude for my loving husband and daughter.  Before meeting Bill and starting a family of our own, I didn’t have any real family to count on.  Growing up my family ties were weak, fragmented and unreliable.   Getting through this stage was tough, but I learned a very important lesson…always look on the bright side of life.   And trust me, there is ALWAYS a brighter side, another option – an optimistic way of perceiving any situation.   In line with the gift of optimism, I’ve gained an earnest appreciation for each and every blessing in my current life.   Blessings such as a loving family and friends, a comfortable home, time to pursue art – these things keep me grounded.  It turns out that looking back isn’t so bad after all, but I’m definitely more excited about looking ahead… moving forward. 



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  1. Becky, I love the pictures! They say so much and you look so happy in them. Your daughter is adorable and has a resemblance to my daughter! I’ll have to dig out some pictures of her around that age and send them to you. I love your optimism – it’s so inspirational and uplifting. No matter how hard life gets, there is always HOPE!!

    Blessings,
    Lisa

    January 3rd, 2010

  2. Lisa, I’m curious to see your daughter’s photos – how interesting that our girls share a resemblance.

    January 4th, 2010

  3. Hi Becky,

    I love the pics, i also, prefer the photo to be the focus, not the frame!

    I dug out old pics and put a Christmas past collection together, so fun, to see the changes and reflect on those wonderful times!

    I, love your attitude….It is too easy sometimes to fall into the negative vibes.
    Your blog background, says it all….live more, dare, think positive,
    believe, explore and grow, etc.~

    Thanks for sharing your uplifting message,
    ~Ellen

    January 3rd, 2010

  4. I love your photo ornaments, too. They give the whole tree personality, history and extra meaning. (And btw, I’ve always loved the tree topper as well!)

    January 4th, 2010

  5. my family is spread out around the world and the states. it’s hard sometimes being so far away. the photo project for the tree will definitely be something i’ll try next year to bring memories and family a bit closer together.

    January 4th, 2010

  6. your tree looks beautiful…..and i would say that all of your handmade photo ornies are definitely the crowning touch!! thanks for sharing them with us…..your wedding photo is beautiful, and i love the photo of your sweet little brook along with her sideburned daddy!! continued blessings to you and your family this year, becky!!

    January 4th, 2010

  7. Hi Becky! Love your tree. The special ornies with photos are great treasures to keep and look back on. You and your family are beautiful! Thanks for sharing your positive vibes!

    January 4th, 2010

  8. Loved the walk down memory lane with the old photo ornaments! A treasure for your family. Happy New Year!

    January 4th, 2010

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